Do you think your illness can be cured by falling in love?

 Honestly,

whenever I hear a girl complain,

"If only I had a boyfriend,

this and that would be so

much better," I get speechless.

Why do they always

so naively attribute their current problems

to not having a boyfriend?

It's like having a boyfriend

would magically solve everything.

I just want to say: Ha!

Like a girl I knew before,

she was the typical type

who hoped love would save her from all her problems

. She was notoriously lazy and a homebody in her dorm.

She basically spent all her time lounging around,

sometimes even having her roommates bring her

food. She ate in bed.

Her biggest hobbies were watching Korean dramas

and complaining about life. Life is full of disappointments

, so she often says things like,

"I'm so bored every day.

If only I had a boyfriend to take me out," "I failed

my exam . If only I had a boyfriend, he

could help me study ,

" "When I don't have enough money for living expenses, if only I had a boyfriend, he could support me," and "When I don't want to do my homework, if only I had a boyfriend, he could do it for me." Girl, are you sure you're looking for a boyfriend and not underwear? Someone who has to cover for you no matter what happens. You don't even want to leave the house. If a boyfriend really appeared, where would he find you? Love should be a process of mutual giving and support , not one person draining the other. No one is obligated to solve all your problems. Ultimately , you have to solve all these problems yourself.

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